If you met an attractive man at a party, you would be showing him your best side and flirting up a storm.
Your online dating profile is no different. It's the first introduction a man has to you. You are literally marketing yourself to the male population online. For some women that sounds horrid but in real life we do it all the time.
The only difference is in real life you have time to immediately correct a faux pas. So you need your profile to show you off in a way that will catch a man's eye and interest right away.
Since this is your first meet and greet, you want your profile to sound flirty and fun. That's how you would be in real life.
Think again about when you met someone in person. You might laugh more at his jokes, you pay closer attention to what he says, and you show your best side. Here are the nine rules for doing the same thing online.
1. Be exciting.
Excitement is what you want a man feeling when he's done reading what you've written. You want him to push that email button as fast as he can to contact and meet you.
When determining what you want to put in your profile, you need to first know what your best qualities are. There's nothing s*xier to a man than your confidence. When you feel good about yourself, you will become a male magnet.
2. Be creative.
Come up with ideas or small stories that paint a picture of the two of you that a man can imagine himself in. You want to use a scene like this to capture the interest of a man. He won't see the scene exactly like you do, but he is capable of visualizing the story you've created with him in it. And if he does, you've hooked him. If he can picture himself in your story, more than likely he will write to you.
Make your profile flirty. He doesn't need to know everything about you in this first introduction.
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Posted By: How May I Help You NC
Wednesday, September 10th 2014 at 4:12PM
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