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Agape is one of Seven Love Types:

Epithumia, liking-love,

Xenia, hospitality-love,

Storge, belonging-love,

Philia, friendship-love,

Eros, romantic-love,

Agape, giving-love, and

Mentor. guiding-love.

Agape giving-love, in Ancient Greece, is unconditional, selfless and divine. Giving and caring about others above self forms part of many religious and spiritual systems. It is an ideal to strive for, but we see healthy glimpses of it all around us. We humans do it all the time, we take care of each other and give to each other altruistically, just, well, just because we are in this thing called ?life? together. We care. Agape can be shared with friends in need, enemies (think tending to wounds of enemy soldiers) and with animals, plants and the environment. All of life needs our reverent, tender agape giving care.

Agape is unconditional where other love types are conditional. Each of the other Love Types, however, can grow agape-like qualities: eros couples going the extra mile in times of sickness or in sharing their love with children, friends becoming more caring towards each other, charity work extends xenia towards agape, epithumia liking-loves, music-making or a theatre skill for example, can be used to altruistically bring hope to people in palliative or prison situations. This is agape, sharing with others simply because they are alive and deserve love and just a little reverence.

Reverence for life

Dr Albert and Helene Schweitzer shared agape love. They travelled to Africa to set up a hospital. Albert was the surgeon, Helene was the anesthetist and together they treated everything from strangulated hernias to tropical diseases. Their work inspired the world. Schweitzer wrote ?Reverence for Life? to explain the ethical underpinning for their work. For this Albert won the 1952 Nobel Peace Prize. In my paraphrase, this is basically how he saw things:

All living creatures, people and animals included, want to be alive, just as I do. If I want my life to be respected, I need to respect theirs.

Life is good, taking it away is not.

We have goodness in us. Collectively we search for kindness, peace and goodwill even if we often disagree on how to get there. Agape love, altruism, is part of our efforts to find lasting peace and security as we go through this crazy life together. Agape is treating each other kindly.

It?s OK to be you and it?s OK to be me

You have as much of a right to be here as I do.

The greatest end of humankind, according to Schweitzer, is service. In the light of his essay ?Reverence for Life,? we can more fully understand some of his best-known quotes:
To be really happy, find out how to serve others.

Kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt, kindness melts misunderstanding, mistrust, and hostility.

To find peace, extend compassion to include all living things.

The purpose of life is to serve, show compassion, and help.

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Saturday, January 17th 2026 at 8:34AM
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