We ask for help.
We ask for a partner to weather life's storms with us.
We as women say we want the man to lead and coach
us in areas that he is strong in.
Our men say they want us women to lead and coach
them in areas that we as women are strong in.
But when the help arrives will we adhere to it?
Are we willing to discipline ourselves to follow
our mates/our coaches instructions and suggestions?
!Risk VS Reward!
Sure you want to go shopping with your paycheck
but your mate says not now! What do you do?
Sure you want to eat out or order delivery, but your
mate says he or she wants you to eat what you have
in the fridge! What do you do?
The risk: You will have to be creative with the wardrobe
and food you have at home. You have to stress about
paying your bills because you spent your money on
food and apparel. Your lover loses respect and desire
for you because you are irresponsible and inconsiderate.
The reward: You can use your money to pay off your
monthly Bills! Your mate will be proud of you and you
will be proud of yourself. You make better decisions.
You become responsible and attractive.
Each person in the relationship has strengths and
weaknesses. A successful couple knows how to
utilize each other to promote growth and development.
Listen with your eyes, ears, nose, and touching ability
to hear and understand what your mate is trying to
help you with.
May the Love Force be with you!
Posted By: How May I Help You NC
Wednesday, June 28th 2017 at 10:12AM
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