For a man, trust is very important. He feels respected when his girlfriend trusts in him. This is not only in trusting that he is not being unfaithful to his girlfriend, but also trusting in his abilities and knowledge as a person.
Trusting in him that he is not being unfaithful means that you trust he loves you sincerely and that he will not make poor judgments in terms of how to handle the relationship with you. It means you trust that he will not do anything to hurt you. To show him that you trust him in this aspect, you can do the following:
-Allow him to enjoy his personal space and time. You do not need to insist to be with him all the time or to watch his every step. If he has his own activities or he wants to go out with his own set of friends, just allow him. This clearly shows to him that you do not doubt that he is lying to you and that he may be with another girl instead.
-Never invade his privacy by reading through his text messages or emails. Being a couple does not mean that you have to know everything about what he does. Text messages or emails can be very private already and these are things you do not need to read, unless he volunteers them to you. If you respect this, he will know that you do not doubt that he is doing something behind your back.
-Do not act too inquisitive when you're around him. Stop interrogating him by asking him exactly what he did, who he was with, and similar things. If you really trust your boyfriend, you will give him the opportunity to volunteer the information to you and there is no need for you to ask any further.
A good way for you to show that you trust your boyfriend will be to not accuse him of anything that involves him lying or being dishonest. This will help for him to feel that you are not second guessing his actions or his honesty towards you in the relationship.
Also allow him to have fun with his friends rather than denying him the opportunity to have fun amongst other people than you his girlfriend. When a man feels free to be able to do what he wants after consulting you he will feel that his girlfriend/partner trusts him when he goes out and about during the relationship.
Hi, I have a boyfriend about a year he has never shown me anything to not trust him. I love him and yes I do trust him but 2 nights ago I started feeling jealous. For no reason I guess, today I was having a conversation with him and I mention that to him, anyways it was that I know since the beginning he has roommates but for my understanding it was a married couple but I just found out by him couple weeks that the lady is single and the other roommate was her son. So I don't know why I got like that also I know he has told me if we get married if for whatever reason I have someone else is OK but I just need to make it home at a decent time. I also heard she has been going out with don't know how many guys and he is leaving in the same house she is they are roommates so don't know why I got that thought the other night that he might be with her also and I talked to him about it I was not questioning anything but I just comment to him what I have thought don't know if I did wrong?
Hi, I have a boyfriend about a year he has never shown me anything to not trust him. I love him and yes I do trust him but 2 nights ago I started feeling jealous. For no reason I guess, today I was having a conversation with him and I mention that to him, anyways it was that I know since the beginning he has roommates but for my understanding it was a married couple but I just found out by him couple weeks that the lady is single and the other roommate was her son. So I don't know why I got like that also I know he has told me if we get married if for whatever reason I have someone else is OK but I just need to make it home at a decent time. I also heard she has been going out with don't know how many guys and he is leaving in the same house she is they are roommates so don't know why I got that thought the other night that he might be with her also and I talked to him about it I was not questioning anything but I just comment to him what I have thought don't know if I did wrong. I have tried: I talked to him about it I told him what I have thought because I understood she was married but no he is leaving in the same house with her. I think it was caused by: I don't know why because I have always trusted him and he has always showed me that I can trust him
What do I do about my jealous feelings and frustration about my boyfriend and his female friend?
My boyfriend has a female friend that he says he is not attracted to. He and I have been in a relationship for 6 months that is now pretty serious for both of us. The female friend is in constant touch with him and they spent an evening together this evening riding bikes, which h e mentioned to me afterward. I don't want to act jealous. What do I do?. I have tried: Told him that I cannot be with him if I cannot trust him. Have asked him point blank if he was feelings for her. Just friendship.. I think it was caused by: I think he should cool it on the friendship if he thinks it bothers me.
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Trust your boyfriend
How do you trust your boyfriend during your relationship? There are many things that can happen within a relationship to make you suspicious; things that make trusting your boyfriend complicated and difficult.
If a girl doesn't feel safe with her boyfriend, the distrust can be destructive and cause the relationship to break down. Often, the issue of trust has more to do with a past relationship, and has less to do with the current one. It might be that no one is cheating on the other, but if cheating has been part of previous relationships, it makes trusting tricky. If this is the first time you've found yourself in this kind of situation, there are ways to regain trust, and ways to trust from the beginning. To be successful, follow these steps to either trust your boyfriend, or regain trust that has been lost.
1. To begin the process of trusting your boyfriend, you need to know exactly why you do not trust him.
When questioning your own trust issues, explore all the reasons for your lack of trust. Girls do not trust their boyfriends for many reasons. Some are obvious. Rumours may circulate about your boyfriend, making you suspicious. Perhaps you simply have a fear of being happy in a relationship and so convince yourself things are not okay, even if they are. Sometimes, instinct or woman's intuition makes a girl question her boyfriend, but this is often a girl's desire to keep drama in the relationship. Some other reasons girls do not trust their boyfriends are varied:
Things have been said to raise your suspicion of him.
An altercation between the two of you has you wondering if he will retaliate, and do something to hurt you.
The relationship is not as strong as it used to be, and you feel he's going in another direction.
He may have done something in the past that you still have not recovered from, and you feel he might do it again.
Perhaps a previous boyfriend betrayed you, and it's making it difficult to trust another man.
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Friday, March 10th 2017 at 2:25PM
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