1. "How did your parents show affection for each other?"
It has been said that the greatest gift we can give to our children is a good marriage. If you grew up in a home where your parents' affection for each other was apparent, chances are you have sought out a partner who can show you that same degree of love.
Nevertheless, it is helpful to find out how your fiance' noticed these signs of affection. Your question might inspire him/her to appreciate a warm and loving family.
2. "What is the best thing that has ever happened to you?"
3. "What are some of the high points of your life?"
4. "What are you most proud of doing in life?"
Life has an odd way of rolling us from one extreme to another. But by talking about some of the high points of life you can gain a greater appreciation of your loved one and share a few laughs. You will gain new respect for your sweetheart's moments of triumph and success.
Life is a series of experiences that can build us up or tear us down. But when you learn to concentrate on the best things of life, even the bad times seem, somehow, endurable. Exploring these pinnacles of life can also be the starting point for many of your future hopes and dreams together.
Also, when we take pride in what we do, there is an energy and happiness that carries over into other facets of life, including marriage. Seek to repeat these moments and you will be assured of much future joy.
Source: Book - Todd Outcalt: Before You Say "I Do"
Posted By: How May I Help You NC
Thursday, December 15th 2016 at 2:24PM
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