The fear of losing who we love paralyzes our ability to think clearly, we panic trying to analyze, what we did wrong, driving us obsessively to take the relationship back to where things were all right.
What was wrong and what is you never to do?
First you have to understand love, unless you did something literally wrong to your partner, anything is your fault. Love is for two and not always the person we love to respond us. Well, having said that, I am going to tell you what our common mistakes are, when we want to get someone back.
1. Blackmail
He has to notice that I can make him happy, anyone is going to love him like me, nobody is going to take care of him like me, sound familiar for you?
A = B
This mean, if a man stops showing interest of you and you respond make gifts him, make a romantic dinner, send messages all the time and only thing he does is to move away from you more and more, you are only making him ask himself “why you do not to value yourself”.
You must trust and value yourself. If he calls you, you call him, if he gives you a gift, you give him a gift but if you are doing good things for him and he does not appreciate, you do not receive anything back, STOP THERE. You are wasting your time.
2. Say I love you, I love you, I love you
Do not exaggerate in telling him how much you love him or you cannot live without him, what you can do is to appreciate things that he has done for you and enjoy time together but serenely with moderation.
If none of this has worked and you still feel he is moving away, these are the two things you must do.
1. Just relax
When you are calm and peace everything comes out better, when we are not relaxed, we are pushing and suffocating them and we are not letting them think for themselves. Causing them to get tired of us because of our insistence.
If he already knows what you feel for him and he also knows you are there to make him happy, give him his space and time.
2. Never stop loving the right person
The only person who will always be the right one at the time of love is yourself.
Every women make this mistake, when we think that he can go away from our life, we stop taking care of ourselves, stop using makeup, don’t take a shower and cry a lot.
None of that is worth it, if you remember when you met him; you were happy, positive and energetic person who was always beautiful, the person who he fell in love with.
Men know when we stop loving ourselves and trust me; there is nothing that will drive a man away faster from your side than your self-devaluation.
Posted By: Nidia Moncada
Thursday, November 17th 2016 at 9:59AM
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