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Do Black Women Come Off This Way with Black Men!? (15250 hits)

Sound off! What do you think? I thought the video was funny and of course not all black women come off this way, but I have noticed that many women that get alot of attention from guys (for their looks) tend to think this way... hehe
Posted By: Will Moss
Sunday, November 27th 2011 at 3:13AM
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This sounds like the women that you hear about when you are a mans friend. We (black women) do act like that, but what is really crazy, some of them end up marrying the guy anyway.....thats scary, my son's father did it.
Sunday, November 27th 2011 at 10:07PM
This applies where it applies! Some black women act worst than this avatar. Especially their reliance on the welfare, section 8 programs, and other government sponsored programs from their 'buddy', the so-called whiteman.
You are not independent so-called black women when you rely on others for your survivial !

Monday, November 28th 2011 at 1:13AM
I'm a black woman and I don't know any black woman that has this type attitude. Maybe you all should start showing what happens to the black woman before she gets to this attitude. You all talk as if Black men are good to black women; just to make something clear Black men are not interested in a caring supportive woman, he only wants to see how much he can make her cry. When you all stop beating black women down then maybe some attitudes will change. Saint Jake, If black men would take care of and support black women then they wouldn't have deal with welfare, Section 8, or other government programs. Black Women are the only women in this world that does not have the support of their men; too busy taking care of other women. Black women have to be strong, all we have is each other.
Monday, November 28th 2011 at 11:57AM
Anjanette Ellington
I tend to agree with valencia... What we need to be careful not to do is throw rocks at each other because of bad experiences we may have had in the past. There are some good black women out there that don't think like this of course, but the thing to note is that some people think this is the norm and we have to promote women that are squashing this stereotype. At the same time, not all black men are the type that Anjanette describes either.
Monday, November 28th 2011 at 12:15PM
Will Moss
this is stupid
Monday, November 28th 2011 at 6:00PM
Shaahn Williams
@Anjanette Ellington

While you at it please tell many of the so-called black women to get married before they have their children out of wedlock. I for one have a lovin fiance and we will be married next year. Also I have many friends, associates, and relatives that have done the same.
The majority of the brothas are "holding it down", contrary to public opinion.
Note: Some so-called black women as well as men are not "off-limits" to criticism especially when it applies where it applies. I have dealt with many black women from various economic levels and I can assure you that many of them act worst then this avatar. Some brothers are also compliant with their dysfunctional attributes as well.
Monday, November 28th 2011 at 10:52PM
I must really be a different kind of women, because I have never been this kind of woman, or hung out with women like this. Do men really believe this, and/or is this what they really experience from us? Or ladies, is this portrayal even remotely accurate? Wowwwww...I don't know whether to laugh or be disgusted because these images are real...smh.
Tuesday, November 29th 2011 at 8:28PM
Tashana Sims Hudspeth
Be disgusted... But its exagerated... Ive never had a black woman talk to me like that, but I have seen them go crazy over "ballers" which leads you to believe certain things... I think its a minority of women, maybe like 8 to10%?
Tuesday, November 29th 2011 at 8:33PM
Will Moss
@ Tashana Please realize that its a matter of your morals and values that make most people act this way, fortunately, you are one that don't and that's good. I personally know men that are good men and they are productive as well, but because of the way that these women treat the men, the men the will try other ethnic groups to seek their woman they desire. That's where the good women loose out. Therefore you have the right to be disgusted.

@ Saint Jake - I work in the assisted housing program, and not all of the women on the system are depending on the government or other funding to allow them to live. Their choice of what is important, and misleading to continue their educations, or just trying to do what you can to make things work will also put them in those situations, and true at times it does not allow them to see the forest for the trees. Assistance is considered a temporary plan, it is not designed to have generations of families continue to receive the assistance.




Thursday, December 1st 2011 at 11:34AM
@Valencia

I stated repeatly in this blog for clarity sake: "It applies when and where it applies."
The reason why I shared my former statements is because I live in New York with diverse neighborhoods, various income/social structures. In addition I have done so many community service and mentoring projects and programs since high school and I have a pulse on a myriad of social structures within a urban setting. Some of my male mentoring students have mothers that are extremely dysfunctional and I debrief with them and encourage them to be positive and attempt to give them good advise and direction.
My comments are based on what I have seen and experienced on da streets.
I'm a type of brotha that calls it like it is.
So I can work with your last statement!!!!!!
Peace

Thursday, December 1st 2011 at 10:46PM
My concern is that this is yet more disparaging representation about us as a people. While I am not so naive to suggest that such a scenario has not and does not occur, what we have to do is understand why we would find ourselves with this mindset. The division of hatred, envy and distrust that is epidemic among us has not occurred by accident. This was a plan of psychological, physical and spiritual assault that was implemented some 300 years ago, during our enslavement. Indeed, Willie Lynch, a slave owner who lived in the early 1700s, supplied slave owners with kits which included everything needed to program and condition slaves to turn against each other. Google Willie Lynch if you would like to have more information. We have a distorted image of ourselves and seem unable to find a true appreciation of who we are. We've learned to value ourselves by what we have, instead of who we are. We miss the blessings of the colors or our skin and the textures of our hair. We continuously try to replace with things, what we have been naturally blessed with. The fact that some of our women have adopted this stance finds its reason in a perpetual conditioning through various media that constantly rehearse to us that we are lacking something. Many times there is no specific reference to what we 'lack" and herein lies the psychological onslaught and abuse. The very vagueness of what we allegedly lack, leaves us constantly trying to attain something that we cannot identify. The reason that we cannot identify it it because it doesn't exist. However mere suggestion has caused us to become stuck trying to figure out some phantom notion of never making the grade or meeting certain criteria. I believe that if we cannot find value and worth in ourselves as we are, the natural beauty that we possessed on the day we were born, and even before, without the chemically altered hair, the replacement nails, the hair extensions, etc, then we have already lost the war.
Tuesday, December 6th 2011 at 6:43PM
ulisheba mitchell
Insecure women act like this woman; but not necessarily Black women. Ole boy said, " Please lose my number. Like most Black men who get hurt, I'm not giving up on all Black women; I'm just giving up on you and your unrealistic expectations." Too funny!!
Monday, December 12th 2011 at 10:12AM
Jen Fad
Many aspects of this skit is correct, but I find that most decent black women have high standards in what they expect from a man and demand it. Many black men are afraid of this and what to do what they want and keep there woman at the same time. I guess what I am saying is that black men can't do to black women and get away with it as they do with other races of women not to depict any race but we all know what I mean. It takes a little more work and effort to make and keep a black woman happy, and from this many black men run from. It's much easier to go outside there race and deal with women who will put up with nonsense. Black women are emotionally stronger than any other race of woman out there. Don't get me wrong there are many like depicted in skit, but many who aren't
Sunday, January 15th 2012 at 1:45PM
Christopher Parks
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